Anonymous asked: Hi, so I have a question about getting back with someone. A guy and I talking a while back. No kissing just hanging out and getting to know each other. I was rude and moody as well as inconsiderate to his feelings towards the end because I thought I would be safe from him "leaving" me because I thought we had something good and safe. Suddenly he ended it with me and I found out it was cause he got cocky by other girls flirting with him. Recently we've hung out and reconnected. Is it worth it?
If that’s really why he stopped talking to you, if it were me, I wouldn’t talk to him again. If he was really into you, he wouldn’t care about those other females and that’s some REAL shit. Don’t ever go back to a guy who leaves you for other females. That’s just dumb and you’d be setting yourself up. Plus, if you did start talking to him again then it’s like you letting him know it’s okay to do you like that. But this is just my perspective from what you told me. Do what you want, and don’t let my input or anyone else’s affect what you choose. Just take into consideration. But really, no matter what you choose, you’ll learn from experience. What seems like the ‘right’ thing to do might be the exact opposite of what you actually want. I know I’m going back on everything I just said but it’s because a year ago, I was trying to convince myself something that I didn’t want to believe just because it was the ‘logical’ thing to do. But the moment I realized that it just wasnt making me happy, I went back on everything I said I’d do and ended up here. I don’t know if I really like it here, but it’s better than where I was.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that, know what the logical thing to do is, but if it’s not what makes you happy, then why do it. You know? Do whatever makes you happy. By giving the information you give, people will be so quick to judge and just tell you to leave, he’s not right for you, blah blah. But they only get the outside looking in. They don’t know what it really is. Sorry if this is hella off topic but if you feel the way I’ve felt, then you’ll know why I’m saying this to you. Good luck though.